Questions that keep me up at night:

What kind of music is it okay to listen to? Can a good Catholic listen to any pop music at all?

Toddlers at Mass: okay or no? Are they welcome or not, because I’m getting mixed signals

Is it okay to be ugly? Or: to chop or not to chop my hair off

Is it okay to be poorly dressed? Are women obligated to dress like “beautiful flowers?

Is it okay for poor people to have kids? (Asking as a poor person who has kids, lol)

• And, is it okay for poor people to have kids?, Part Two

And on that note, is NFP birth control, and is its use ever justified?

Is it okay to have kids after 35? Because the internet would have me believe it’s not.

What even is an alcoholic? And, do I even exist?

Am I still a real mom if I get an epidural during birth? Because the internet would have me believe I’m not.

Should I fast for Lent if I have a history of EDs, and am physically but not fully psychologically recovered?

• And, should I fast for Lent if I have a history of EDs?, Part Two, in which I (hopefully) finally answer this question

Is it okay for women to wear pants?: some thoughts on the online trad world’s obsession with femininity

Is it okay to eat fake meat products, like Beyond Burgers or soy chorizo?

What if the antivaxxers are right?: or, why I’m still cautiously pro-vaccine

Are homesteaders better than other people? Is it okay to live in the city, to not have a garden or raise chickens or whatever?

• And, to follow up, are homesteaders better than other people?, Part Two

Am I a bad mom if my two-year-old is still in diapers? or: is it a moral failing to try to make life easier where possible?

Is it okay to enjoy love stories?, or: is it ever okay to deliberately excite the emotions w/r/t worldly things?

Can you separate artist from art?: or, is it okay to watch The Sandman and listen to Chris Brown?

Have I been going about this all wrong?? (One hundredth post!)

Should Catholics celebrate Halloween?: I mean, why would you want to, though

Is it okay for Catholic parents to do “Santa Claus” with their kids?

Should I go vegan again?: or, do I even believe in anything at all, honestly?

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Rants:

On Unaliving: another of my unpopular opinions

Beat you to it!: a post about intelligence

Stop Commenting On Pregnant Women’s Bodies (or anyone’s bodies, for that matter)

Why Would You Say That about a complete stranger’s food choices?

People Should Drive The Speed Limit

Why do people celebrate summer? Seriously, what is so great about it?

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MiTHology

On College: some thoughts on the 10 yr anniversary of my college graduation

5 Years: some thoughts on my 5 year soberversary

AvPD (avoidant personality disorder): my experience with it

How I Went From Liberal Atheist to Radtrad Catholic Extremist: conversion story

Mith’s sobriety story, in honor of 6 years sober

a birth story: my Weird Catholic story of natural childbirth

attending the TLM with AVPD: my reflections upon one year in tradland

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